Youngsters of India are not comfortable in family functions

                               

As a common youngster of this nation, who belong to traditional south Indian family. Not as stereo typed by Bollwood Movie makers as in 2 States or Chennai Express. I often do not attend any family function because I'm a college student so i have lots of works to do. This may be an outer reason but truly i would have no important job rather than sitting in canteen and chatting with the friends.

Actually the problem i said above may not be addressed by all the people who read this(I hope there are one or two to read this scribbling by myself). This problem will be addressed by all the person who are quite reserved by nature and who doesn't socialize much.

On the other hand the people who could dwell well with their relations would definitely be the center of attraction at their work places or colleges. On a Humor note this could be addressed as the multiple disorder disease. 2 personalities inside one person who is social in his work environment and mum at home.

Main reason for this could be when you happen to attend any function of your relative, there too many people come and enquire that who you are, and whose son or daughter are you.

It could be brought down into a circle

consider a person in his class 9 and from that onwards when he attends any function he would be facing the sequence of questions

How much did you secure in your tenth standard ?

which group you prefer in twelfth standard ?

Whats your score in twelfth standard ?

Which course are you looking for ? (Engineering is by default)

Which college you have got seat ?

Whats your GPA ? (Most dreaded questions which makes students avoid attend functions)

Which company have you been placed ?

Whats your salary ?

Have you got married ?

How many kids do you have ? 

Actually this cycle completes here and it starts again for the kid from his class 10 based on the future situation.

 Youngsters truly have the answers for all the questions said above but they will stand still when their answer is not convincing the person who raised it.

 Consider a person who has scored low marks in his/her board exams then she would not dare to attend any functions immediately after her results because for everybody present in the function it would be a joyful event but for the particular boy or girl each and every person would come and console her as she had lost some big things in life.

The last two question are most dangerous because by nature they are so hypothetical because if we don't give them a convincing reply then each and every person will have their own theory and in each theory would humiliate the person to the core to extent that the person is physically unfit or sometimes even impotent.


                       

And at last i'm a common man struck into the circle i don't want my next generation to struck into stupid cycle like this lets make a better tomorrow.